Our Kids Make us Better

Last night I had the privilege of leading worship with a band comprised of five youth.  One of those youth was Lydia.  Having her on my team--working with her to prepare and fine tune our practice--was the greatest privilege of all.  

"I enjoyed leading with you tonight, Daddy," were her words on the trip home.

"I enjoyed it too, Lydie.  You make me better," were the words I heard come out of my mouth.  Didn't know that was coming, but I had formed those thoughts earlier that evening as we practiced as a team.  "Dad, that's not how we practiced it at home," or "Dad, that's not how you said we were going to do that."

(It bears noting that I was also slated to teach last night.  Our theme: Living Life as Worship.  We would focus on living every aspect of life for God.)

So here I was, There I was, in front of of the team with my daughter bringing some push back on my leadership in that moment.  How was I going to respond?  Was I going to live this moment for God?

Admittedly, my first split second emotion was, "How dare she interrupt!"  But as I looked over at her I recognized a crossroad.  Grace and Humility quickly motioned me their way and I gave in.  In those milliseconds I went from bristled offense to inviting, "Okay Lydia, what did I say and how am I doing it differently?"

She clarified.  I accepted.  The team was with us, and we continued.  That's when I thought, "Lydia is making me a better leader."  

Following rehearsal, I sought Lydie out to thank her for speaking up and to be sure we were good.  We were.

It's never easy to have someone correct us, especially those who are younger or in a seemingly lesser position than us, but I'm glad Lydia caught those inconsistencies in practice; I'm glad she spoke up (speaking up is certainly one of her strengths).  I love who God has made her and who she is becoming by His grace.

She is making me a better Dad, a better leader, a better person.  As I know He is using  me to make her a better person, daughter, friend and leader.

Who are the people God is using Today to make you better?  I encourage you to write down a name or two that come to mind.  You might even take a moment to let them know--a quick text, a Facebook message, a call or the ancient practice of mailing a card!  I have found that thanking and affirming others brings joy to the heart and strengthens the faith of others.